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One reason for this phenomena is undoubtably the somewhat unrealistic claims often being made in sales letters for Internet marketing tools and programs. The wealth of information about Internet marketing that is readily available to you can be compared to the tough physical conditioning a top athlete goes trough - there will be a lot for you to do while learning all the tools of the trade, but if you stick with the plan and do it a little bit at a time you will eventually possess the Internet marketing equivalent of a super-athletes physiology.

One reason for this phenomena is undoubtably the somewhat unrealistic claims often guts made in sales letters for Internet marketing tools and programs. And many network marketing programs would have you assume that you 'just have to sign up' and then the system will do all the work for you. However, I don't think we can shift all of the prosecution on 'the system'. in obedience to all, when was the last time you undisputed a typical tv-commercial or sales pitch to be 100% objective and truthful? What makes you think publicity on the Internet would be any different?

Regardless of what you are trying to promote online, be it your own product(s), an enter program or a multi-level marketing company, the fact is that it will take time and effort erst you reach your goal. Your mental inclination towards the project is therefore of utmost importance. Information on specific things, like getting web site traffic or publishing your own newsletter, is readily immanent on good sites anyhow home based and Internet Marketing - just like the site you are visiting right now. Finding people who will teach you all they know in reverse Internet marketing is not a problem. But it will be entirely up to you to take episode and realize your dreams.

Self Motivation and Mental Training

It is therefore important that you firmly credit that you CAN and WILL be successful with your hand-picked program or product. In fact you should stand up in front of a mirror right now and tell yourself exactly what you expect to find with this program and that, no matter what, you will reach your goal. This is a technique styled autosuggestion and it is discussed in great detail in the book 'Think and Grow Rich' by coin Hill.

I know some people like to scoff at so 'self-help books',but I really recommend that you read this one with an open mind and try out it's suggestions.

I mean, think as regards it for a moment...if you consider, say, a high jumper. Do you think he or she could in actuality jump over a bar that is well over 2 meters up in the air if they constantly where thinking 'that's waaay to high, I'll never make it'? Of course not! scarcely all successful athletes today recognize the importance of mental training in combination to physical conditioning. The wealth of information on every side Internet marketing that is readily off to you can be compared to the tough physical conditioning a top player goes trough - there will be a lot for you to do while learning all the tools of the trade, but if you stick with the plan and do it a little bit at a time you will eventually possess the Internet marketing equivalent of a super-athletes physiology. If you also take some time to program your mind for success, there is no limit to what you can accomplish.

Another important point is to recoil negative reference groups - no matter how much you have pumped up your confidence, it can all be torn down in a heartbeat by a negative reference group. Especially when you try to earn a living from the Internet, you will run into many people who will tell you how stupid you are for even thinking of such a possibility. You must at all costs debar talking (seriously) randomly your plans with people like this. Confide only in those who will support you, and ignore all the whiners an old farts who know nothing nearly the Internet anyway!

Conclusion

So, to tie the two aspects mentioned in this incidental together - it is important for you to take in yourself, but you must also have realistic expectations. Most people who fail in making it on the Internet do so for they buy into some 'get-rich-quick-over- night-without-lifting-a-finger-scheme'. And when nothing happens for the entire first week they feel ripped off and give up.

'Internet marketing' is not a magic thermonuclear reaction that, by itself, will donate you to quit your job tomorrow and come forth a millionaire. However, the Internet DOES offer many fantastic opportunities to make a decent living marketing products and services - provided that you have something of value to sell, of course. You should fastidious a product, program or system that you feel really good about. Preferably something that you still have more knowledege pertaining to than people on average. Once you are also prearranged with the right posture I would be happy to protect you in your Internet marketing efforts in any way I can. Then all that is left to do is for you to GO FOR IT!

© Bjorn Hakans 2005


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I have just finished counselling with a client who was depressed. She is a young mum and initially she was in a very low mood. She hadn't experienced talk therapy before but her friends were pushing her to do something about how miserable she felt.
We talked about her life: the husband that loves her, her 7 month old daughter who she finds difficult to enjoy, her house, her friends and her relatives. About session three, I was wondering where the depression was coming from - her circumstances seemed good, she was healthy and she had several close relationships.

Then we started to talk about when the depression had started - just after her daughter's birth. She mentioned in a 'give away comment', her mother had come to see her then for the first time in 2 years. Well apparently her mum and dad had separated when she was 13 years, had gone off with their own lovers and in the intervening 10 years, my client had seen them separately, irregularly.
Then we started to unfold her memories of being left "in the family home" with her elder sisters (18 and 21 years), being expected to get herself up every day and out to school, feeding herself from whatever food was available in the kitchen, with her sisters at home only when they weren't at work or with boy-friends.

Apparently some days she bunked off school and sat on a wall near the shopping precinct, watching people pass, knowing that no one cared what she did or where she went.
So here was the root of her depression: my client had given up a lively job in a busy office when her baby was due, she was now stuck in her house with a new child and her husband was working long hours to support the three of them - for much of her day, no one cared what she did or where she went.
My client actually broke into tears as she uttered this phrase - no one cared what she did or where she went.

It has taken another six sessions to tease out all her pain and to counter the thoughts that were feeding it - what had she done to be discarded by her mum and dad, how was she going to cope with the world without her parents to love her, and how could she find someone to care about her?
It was easy for my client to project these thoughts into her new daughter's life: what would prevent her from abandoning her daughter on a shopping trip, why couldn't she feel any love for her daughter or her husband, and would anyone care if she went away?

Happily we have now worked through my client's difficult teenage years. She has recognised that her mum and dad were poor parents - so besotted with their own affairs that they hoped the other was doing the parenting and not realising that neither was. She knows she can make her own parenting different - she can choose to stay married to her husband, she can choose to love and cherish her child (or children, later) and in caring for her family, she can enjoy how much they care for her. A tipping point in my client's recovery was when she noticed how much joy her daughter has seeing her after an absence of a couple of minutes. Another important factor was becoming aware that her husband was always glad to see her, to hold her and to cherish her.

So now the depression is lifted. I don't say that it is gone forever because I cannot tell what the future will bring to my client. However, for now, she knows how to manage and chase away those low feelings: to see how her daughter and husband love her.

So now my client's first question to me 'Why am I feeling depressed?' is answered by "No one cared what you did or where you went" and we have found the antidote - 'They do now".

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